Membership for Single Males

Single male participants are required to hold an active membership to attend Party Players events.

Membership is vetted to ensure that all participants are trustworthy, respectful, and aligned with our community ethos.

Applications and details are handled privately via our contact form.

Because these are private, invitation-only gatherings, we operate a vetting process for all new guys before anyone can attend.

To apply as a single male, please send the following:

• Your scene profile from FabSwingers, FetLife, SwingHub or a similar site
• A profile that includes verifications and clear photos
• Your scene name/username so we can view your activity and references

If you don’t have an established scene profile yet, that’s not necessarily a problem, but we would need to have a conversation first and possibly arrange a video call etc so we can verify you properly.

Please understand that we are very selective about the men we invite. The aim is to keep events relaxed, respectful, safe and enjoyable for everyone involved.

A few important points about how our events work:

• Events are private and organised in advance
• Spaces are limited and confirmed ahead of time
• There is a membership contribution to join the group
• Events may also require a contribution which is paid in advance via a official group PayPal.me pool, accepting all methods of payment.
• All rules and expectations are shared beforehand and everyone attending is expected to follow them

Once we’ve reviewed your profile and details, we can let you know whether we feel you would be a good fit for the group and discuss the next steps

Event Contributions

To help cover the costs of hosting events — including venue hire, refreshments, and other running costs —  attendees are usually asked to provide a contribution per event. Contributions vary depending on the event and are handled privately once interest has been expressed and participants vetted.